Boston.Com Love Letters - I Slept With My Boyfriend's Best Friend
The Question
I’ve been dealing with so much hurt and guilt because of what I did to an amazing man. One day we got into an argument and I ended things with him and left. He looked for me, but I wouldn’t budge. A few days went by, I was at a bar and had one too many drinks, and ended up having sex with one of his best friends. I felt horrible the next day, but held it in for a few days before I told my ex what I did. He was heartbroken. However, he tried to forgive me and we were together again, but then he tells me he cannot do this anymore because he can’t get past what I did.
We talk here and there asking how we are, but it doesn’t go anywhere. I wonder if there is any hope left. It breaks my heart.
– Made a Mistake
Meredith Hoss Goldstein’s Answers
Well, this is awful. But here’s one thing to know: He wasn’t perfect. You had a big fight for a reason. Something bad happened, and you were ready to walk away.
Now it’s time to head to therapy so you can learn to forgive yourself.
I have no idea whether he’ll get over this and return to the relationship, but you should do the work either way. If you want to be healthy with someone else, it’s important to be able to bring out the best in yourself.
– Meredith
Readers? How can she fix this?
El Pres Answer
Can you fix this? What is this candid camera? Am I on TV? Can you fix this? No you can’t fix this you whore. You fucked your boyfriend’s best friend. That’s unfixable. You can pretty much fix anything else. You can fuck random guys, girls, etc. You can murder, steal, cheat etc. You just can’t fuck your boyfriend’s best friend. There is no hope left. It’s over. Embrace the fact you’re a dirty little whore and call it a day.
PS – How about Hoss Goldstein saying 1 fight proves this guy wasn’t perfect? What couples don’t fight anymore? Every couple fights. Not every chick goes to the bar and wolf’s down her boyfriend’s best friend’s dick like a Happy Meal. Chick is FUCKED. Therapy don’t fix whore. Embrace being the bad girl. You’re the chick that fucks everybody and has no remorse for human life. Own it.